Do you know who you should be?
How Stoic role ethics guides the way
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The Delphic Oracle urged anyone who approached Apollo’s temple to know thyself. Thousands traveled to hear her pronounce who they were and who they should be.
Like Greeks waiting on the words of the Priestess of Apollo, young Romans turned to Epictetus to discover their identities. They too wanted to know their own nature and Fate.
Epictetus offered an answer:
According to the Stoics, who you should be is determined by your roles. This is a deceptively simple idea that, in my opinion, is one of Stoicism’s most powerful and life-guiding ones.
There are two kinds of roles: universal, roles we share, and specific, unique roles.
All of us share the role of being human – we’re rational creatures meant to live according to Nature. That means pursuing knowledge and wisdom to the best of our abilities. We practice this by accurately identifying what is up to us and what is not.
The next kind of role is specific:
These roles depend on our relationships, talents, and preferences. Some relationships are chosen while others are unchosen bonds – like our family and city. Our talents or constitution limit who we can be. In those limits, we find freedom. Finally, our choices and preferences narrow our purpose further. We come into the world with natural inclinations. Follow them.
These roles form a hierarchy. First, we should fulfill our human role, then the roles given by our relationships, then talents, and, last, preferences. This rules out anti-social and unjust roles that harm humanity. For example, Epictetus’s teacher, Musonius Rufus, advised his students to be loyal to their parents (a natural relationship) – but that doesn’t mean we should obey them when their requests are made out of ignorance.
With this framework, Epictetus’s students were able to narrow down who they should be. We can do the same.
Pause and remind yourself of your specific roles.
As inspiration, consider Epictetus’s list:
💬 An intriguing quote about the nature of freedom and limitation from the psychiatrist Thomas Szasz:
🧙 If you want to go deep into this issue the best academic treatment is Brian Johnson’s The Role Ethics of Epictetus: Stoicism in Ordinary Life.
📗 Against making a difference – why role ethics a true and how other modern can ethics mislead us.
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